There Are People Who Just Want To See The World On Fire
There are people who just want to see the world on fire. If you don’t watch out, they’ll be pouring gasoline on you before you know what your intentions are. They are those toxic people who open their mouths and fan the flames of lack of character within their being.
They are specialists in putting their finger on the wound so that their pain becomes greater and hurts more than they already do in everyday life. They are those who take pleasure in making others small just to see themselves as big in the face of adversity.
Those people who, in the end, only know how to be happy if compared to others they are better at everything, and if not, make you believe that they are. But it’s in their hands to light the matches that set the world on fire when they pour gasoline.
They want to make the world burn and you burn with envy
For them, nothing you do, say, or think will ever be good enough compared to what they said, did, or thought. They simply believe that by making you feel inferior, they will be better than you. But remember, this only happens if you allow it.
For you to burn with envy, you have to let your opinion penetrate you, you have to value it. Only if you choose to trust their words and put your own self-esteem in their hands, everything they say can hurt you.
They know that we all have flaws, we all want to improve or change something about ourselves: neither they nor anyone else is perfect. That’s what these people who try to sink us take advantage of, our insecurities are their fuel.
You can decide whether to give matches to those people who are filling you with gasoline from their complexes, for the sole purpose of making you burn with envy. Think about how you can always avoid getting hurt with words if you take away the credibility of the person who is uttering them.
nothing that is accepted can burn
Your self-esteem must come from you and your view of yourself. Just as your emotional balance should not be in the hands of others, so should your self-esteem. Always remember that the words of others reflect your own faults more than your own.
Defining and accepting yourself does not have to be based on the opinions of others. Never accept destructive criticism from someone who doesn’t bother to build anything. If someone wants you to turn to ashes, they’ll have to do more than bathe you in gasoline with your envy, because you won’t spark and therefore won’t be able to burn.
Think that if someone has good intentions with you, they won’t spend your life burying them in the criticisms and hostile comparisons that you lose out on. Those who love and appreciate you will only criticize you if there is a reason to do so. Furthermore, to this criticism they would add possible ways to improve, trying to make it stronger, and never letting it burn.
Don’t give them matches to increase their power
It’s easy to say not to give matches to increase your power, but it’s very hard to live with those who want to make you feel small and doubt every step you take. They try to turn it to ash so that it disappears with a simple breath of air.
They tell you that you are small, that you are nothing. They are the prettiest, the smartest, the friendliest and hardest-working. On the face of it, you can say that yes, they are the best at everything, but that you don’t have to compare yourself to any of this because you are happy with what you have.
They may even win by making the comparison they present realistically. Besides, you certainly don’t have everything, there are certainly people better at everything because everything is better, but being happy with yourself is one of the best feelings there is, and that’s why you shouldn’t let anyone steal it.
If they haven’t learned to love themselves, don’t let that stop you from loving yourself, because everything they do, they do exactly because they’re the ones who burn with envy. And on the face of it, you can only want them to love each other the same way you love yourself. And above all, wanting them to learn that the best feeling is not to see the world on fire, but to love yourself and the world as it is.
